I masturbate
Why are most people so embarrassed to admit that they masturbate? I mean we all do it, and there’s nothing wrong with it: on the contrary, it lets you get to know what you like. Yet, today, many people publicly deny that they perform this sexual practice and even prohibit their partners from performing it, because they associate masturbation with relationship problems. Worst of all is the myth that masturbation causes blindness and other diseases. Nothing is further from the truth. Of course, it is a healthy and satisfying sexual practice that gives the practitioner pleasure. The only problem now is that you might end up in jail if you do it in the wrong place… avoid beaches, parks and trains at all cost.
Many people feel guilty when they masturbate- it is a shameful secret. Perhaps that is why people usually masturbate when home alone and in a private place, like under the covers or behind the door (and sometimes with the lights off). However, one must know that first of all, touching oneself is a natural act, which you shouldn’t be ashamed of. First of all, you need to accept that it is a natural drive, and that many people enjoy auto-erotic experiences.
Be open about the practice and you may discover that you don’t need to compare it with partner sex; it is a valid and valuable practice on its own. However, exploring it with a partner could take it to new levels. You could take a trip to Italy with your partner to explore new levels of intimacy. Rent apartments in Florence and discover yourselves anew: feel the exciting and penetrating gaze of your partner as they take note on how you give yourself so much pleasure.
